
Bolani, a flat bread stuffed with potatoes or leeks.

Lamb kebab plate.

Afghan bread and a salad of tomatoes, red onions and cilantro.
It isn’t exactly the most beautiful of places. The street is empty and parking easy to find (and free). The displays in the shop windows are faded and I wonder whether they really do show movies in the dilapidated theater and who would go see them? But it’s not the movie theater we’ve come to visit, it’s the shop next door where we hear the man rattling off something to a customer in a language I can’t understand and the smell of spices from the kebabs cooking washes over us. We’ve come to De Afghanan Kebab House in Fremont.
With only three or four small round tables (covered in glass, business cards and event advertisements slid underneath), a seat inside can be hard to come by. Most guests prefer to take their orders home with them. We decide to eat in, though, and it proves to be a feast for our senses: heat emanates throughout the matchbox-sized restaurant from the open flame where the kebabs cooks, nice on a cool October day. The photographs covering the wall–all of Afghan people or places–pull me past the Afghanistan of the news and make me wonder how many people in Afghanistan were eating kebabs at this very moment and did their mothers and grandmothers hand down coveted recipes for seasoning the kebabs? I am certain there must be some secret recipe behind the kebabs in this restaurant. I’d had them once before and they were the best kebabs I had ever had. Craning my head around the counter, I peek at the owner grilling the beef, lamb and chicken kebabs over the flame. An elbow away, a woman prepares massive bolani for the griddle. The thin pan bread is stuffed with seasoned mixtures of potatoes or leeks and then fried on the griddle.
Twenty minutes after we order our food, the owner brings us a bowl heaping with yogurt and squeeze-bottles of mint-cilantro chutney and red chile chutney. Then he proudly presents us with a large platter with of bolani fresh from the griddle and sliced into manageable pieces. The bolani is huge — easily the size of a large pizza! And it is only our appetizer. We tear off pieces of the hot bolani and dip it in the yogurt and chutneys. Between sips of Coke (you need soda with spicy food!) and blowing on the hot bolani, I savor the crisp exterior of the bread and the steaming mashed-potato filling flecked with chili flakes.
A few minutes after our bolani arrived, we scoot our Cokes and bottles of chutney to the side of the table to make room for our kebab plates. We ordered two kebab plates for three people, but we will still go home with leftovers. Generous portions of rice, Afghan bread, a potato-and-chickpea salad and a salad of tomatoes, red onions and cilantro accompany the kebabs. Once again, I am amazed by the incredible tenderness of the meat and delicious seasoning on the kebabs. Could such a small, grungy restaurant really make such wonderful kebabs? As we pay for our meal and shuffle past the other customers standing in the doorway, waiting to order their meals or pick up an order to take home to their families, I know the answer. De Afghanan Kabaob House makes the best kebabs I’ve ever had, and judging by the flock of people waiting patiently for their kebabs, I know I’m not the only one simulataneously marveling at the apparent squalor of the restaurant and the utter deliciousness of the hot bolani and tender kebabs. But the grunge isn’t enough to keep these people away, and it’s not going to keep me from coming back for another kebab either.
Still curious? Check out De Afghanan Kabob House’s website or read what other people are saying about De Afghanan on Yelp.
When we arrived in Cape Cod, my cousin Paula told us about a crab shack she had seen on TV and was arguably the best on The Cape. The next day we stopped for lunch at
Arnold’s has an extensive menu with seafood rolls and fried seafood baskets comprising the majority of choices. Sam and I decided to go for the best of both worlds and split a lobster roll and fried clam basket.

My aunt also ordered a basket of onion rings for us to share. The onion flavor was so intense and the thin, crispy texture of the onions so perfect that my standard of onion rings has been raised by these onion rings.

When we arrived at Arnold’s we planned to get ice cream at the ice cream bar attached to the back, but after such a heavy meal I couldn’t bear to look in that direction. That was ok, though, because ice cream shacks abound on the Cape.
On our drive from New York to Cape Cod, my Aunt Linda, Sam and I stopped at
Walking into the Griswold Inn Restaurant, I immediately felt like I was walking into the hold of a ship. The dark wood floors, paneling and furniture evoked an atmosphere of age, which was further enhanced by the memorabilia covering the walls. From rifles to lithographs to framed captain’s orders 150 years old, the Inn’s homage to our American heritage was undeniable. The Gris’ Tap Room has also been named the most handsome bar room in America.
As this was our first stop in New England, Sam and Aunt Linda ordered bowls of clam chowder to get into the New England seafood spirit.
For my seafood fix, I ordered The Griswold Inn’s Saturday special: a crab cake melt, which is a crab cake, topped with tomato and cheese served on an English muffin. I like the idea of a crab cake melt, but the crab cake had too mayonnaise for my taste.
On this trip, I was struck by how untraditionally New England the menus at the Griswold Inn and other restaurants were. As a visitor, I had determined to temporarily relinquish my California fresh cuisine and eat as much traditional New England seafood as possible. Quite frankly, there weren’t many seafood choices on the menu, which is why Sam ordered a panini and Aunt Linda ordered a mozzarella and roasted vegetable sandwich. I have a theory, though, that those who live in New England are tired of traditional New England food and want updated menus. This desire for new flavors is understandable; it just makes getting traditional New England fare a little trickier.
After lunch we took a walk down the main street. The yards were vibrant and lush with greenery and grass, and the houses were pristinely preserved. Stunning hydrangeas were in every yard, and I especially loved these pale green hydrangeas.



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The Christmas season might be drawing to a close, but the memories are living on. In mid-December my parents, Sam and I attended a Christmas sing-along with the San Francisco Symphony Chorus. Beforehand we had dinner at SF’s hip and sought-after Foreign Cinema in the Mission. Sam’s company had its Christmas party there two years ago, but Sam’s company isn’t the only one who considers Foreign Cinema Christmas party-worthy — Berkeley’s dynamic and influential Chez Panisse holds its Christmas party here as well. Just go to the
Besides the ambience and rave reviews, I knew Foreign Cinema had something good going for it when our server asked us whether we wanted still or sparkling water — sparkling water was no extra charge. As avid sparkling water drinkers, we took them up on their offer. The servers were attentive, refilling our water glasses whenever they were less than half full.
For her entree my mom ordered Chilean Sea Bass seasoned with cilantro and accompanied by white beans. The combination of fish and beans was new to me, but I liked how the beans’ firm texture was juxtaposed against the fish’s softer texture.
My dad ordered a lavender-scented pork chop with an apple puree and savory bread pudding with chard. The portion was very large, and the scent of lavender only a whisper, but he enjoyed it.
Sam ordered steak with grilled artichokes and arugula. Unlike regular steakhouse fare, Foreign Cinema’s steak was sliced and artfully fanned out on the plate. The portion size was on the smaller side — on the healthful side, actually — and the quality was superb. Cooked medium rare, the steak was tender and flavorful, not overpowered with spices.
I ordered the duck breast, which was also accompanied by a duck sausage, French lentils and a crostini with pate. The duck breast — also sliced and artfully fanned out on my plate — was not at all greasy like duck can be. It was tender and moist, and the spice of the sausage added a befitting kick. I have to admit that one of the reasons I ordered the duck was for the lentils that accompanied it, and I was not disappointed. The Foreign Cinema puts just as much care into the entree’s side dish as into the actual entree, yet carefully maintains a balance so the entree remains the star of the meal.
Sam ordered chocolate pot de creme, which is a sort of chocolate custard or pudding. Rich and intense, this dessert packed high-quality chocolate flavor. The texture was smooth, and it was gobbled up in no time.

